A DIY Wedding Planning Binder to Get Your Big Day Organized

by Danielle Salazar February 26, 2016 13 Comments

You’re engaged – congratulations! But now what? Where do you begin? Well, we’re here to help! Here at Kennedy Blue we love all things weddings, which means we know exactly how overwhelming wedding planning can be. Our DIY wedding planning binder is the perfect place to start. We’ve put together the ultimate wedding planning checklist, along with a detailed list of how to create your own binder at home. Time to get organized!

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Getting Started – Your DIY Wedding Planning Binder

To begin, you’ll need to gather your supplies to put your binder together – Target dollar section, here we come!

What you’ll need:

  • 1” binder
  • Tab dividers
  • Sticky notes
  • Colorful pens
  • Highlighters
  • Clear sheet covers – these will be used to store contracts, pictures, etc.
  • Calendar (free printable below!)
  • Wedding planning checklist (free printable below!)

Optional Items:

  • Washi tape
  • A clear zip pouch for storing swatches, business cards, etc.

Once you’ve gotten everything you need, it’s time to put it together! For the dividers we created the following 8 categories (you can always break them into sub-categories within, too).

Binder Categories:

  1. Budget – include your full budget breakdown here
  2. Guests & Invites – guests list and their addresses, wedding party contact information, hotel information, invites, etc.
  3. Ceremony – venue information, décor or rental information, contracts, wedding programs, officiant information, etc.
  4. Reception – venue information, décor or rental information, music playlists and DJ or band contact information, caterer information and menus, seating chart, contracts, etc.
  5. Attire & Beauty – bridal gown information (any information on shops you are visiting and where you purchased from), groom attire, bridal party attire, hair and makeup artist information, contracts, accessories, etc.
  6. Photographer – list of photos you would like – you can print off some pictures you’d like to show for ideas (or just use your Pinterest board!), vendor information, business cards, contracts, etc.
  7. Florist – pictures of inspiration or colors you like, vendor information, contracts, business cards, etc.
  8. Miscellaneous – honeymoon plans, registry information, rehearsal dinner information, etc.

A (free!) printable calendar and checklist to get your binder started

Free Calendar Printable

Two of the most essential elements of your wedding planning binder are going to be your calendar and a wedding timeline checklist, which we chose to add in the very beginning of the binder. It’s so important to stay on track with planning in order to meet your deadlines, and to promptly make all of your appointments – plus this free printable calendar from the the Simple As That blog is ADORABLE (not pictured above)! Don’t forget to check out the checklist below, too!

Download your 2017 Printable Calendar from the Simple As That blog. If you're still looking for the 2016 calendar, you can find that here.

Free Calendar Printable

The ultimate wedding timeline checklist to stay organized

Planning your wedding comes along with some deadlines. You might be wondering about some of these and if you can push them back somewhat or not.  Don’t! It is best to stay on top of things, so you don’t become overwhelmed towards the end and also to ensure you get everything on time.

Some vendors need to be booked right away because they become fully booked at least a year in advance. Other things such as your bridal attire and bridesmaid dresses need to be ordered months in advance, due to production times and alterations, so we’ve put together the perfect list for you to ensure you’re on top of things throughout the process!

Download this wedding timeline checklist from My Wedding Reception Ideas today and get started. You’ll also want to check out our ultimate list below as well that includes a few more things you don’t want to forget!

This wedding planning checklist is such an awesome tool! | A DIY Wedding Planning Binder To Get Your Big Day Organized | Kennedy Blue 

First things first – Right away after you get engaged

  1. First of all, settle on your budget. Figure out how much money you have overall and then break down how much you can allot to each category. 
  2. Make a Pinterest account and look for inspiration!
  3. Narrow down some potential dates – you’ll be able to set one once you’ve decided on your venue.
  4. Research wedding venues that interest you and book appointments to tour and get information on pricing and available dates to see if they’ll fall in your budget and have availability for you. 
  5. Have an engagement party if you wish! You can throw your own little soiree, if you’d like, or have a friend or family member host something too.

12 Months Before

  1. Start putting together your guest list and gathering addresses.
  2. Research photographers you are interested in and book appointments to meet with them. You’ll want to hire your photographer ASAP after you’ve met with them because many photographers are fully booked up to a year in advance. After booking, schedule your engagement photo session for about 8-9 months before your big day.
  3. Begin shopping for your wedding dress – YAY! Don’t feel pressured to purchase one right away if you’re still 12 months out unless, of course, you know it’s THE one. Keep in mind, the sooner you do purchase your dress, the more time you will have to pay it off, and the sooner it comes in as well.
  4. Finalize the date once you’ve narrowed down your venue and photographer and confirmed their availability for the same day.
  5. Book a block of hotel rooms for out of state guests at a nearby hotel.
  6. Choose your wedding party! We’ve got a great list of bridesmaid proposal ideas if you’re looking for a fun and creative way to ask your gals.

11 Months Before

  1. Start planning your ceremony and reception décor. Whether you’ll be doing some DIY projects, or ordering rentals, you’ll want to get in contact with any vendors or start purchasing any supplies you need.
  2. Book your florist and meet with them to decide on what types of flowers you would like for bouquets, centerpieces, boutonnieres, etc. Bring along any pictures or ideas you have in mind!
  3. Book your caterer and figure out your menu.

10 Months Before

  1. Finalize your guest list.
  2. Set up your registries – make sure to register for enough stuff for the amount of guests you’ll be inviting!
  3. Book an officiant. This may be done through your church or elsewhere and there’s always the option to have a friend or family member get ordained to perform your ceremony!
  4. Book your DJ or band. This is a great vendor to get referrals from friends on. If you’ve been to a wedding where you loved the music, ask the bride or groom for contact information. Start narrowing down your ceremony and reception music.

9 Months Before

  1. Order your bridal gown if you haven’t already done so! This will allow for enough time for production and any necessary alterations before your big day.
  2. Book your hair and makeup artist(s) and coordinate whether they will be coming on-site for these services or if you’ll need to make a trip to the salon. This is also a good time to book a trial run – you’ll want to schedule this about 4-6 months before your wedding.
  3. Discuss hair and makeup with your bridal party. Do you want everyone to have their hair and makeup done by the same people that are doing yours? Or will you allow your gals to go wherever they prefer (while giving them some guidelines to follow, of course) or even opt to do their own hair and makeup? Will you be paying for a portion of their hair and/or makeup as a gift? This is a good time to let them know your plans.
  4. Take your engagement photos!

8 Months Before

  1. Order your accessories – shoes, jewelry, any hair accessories or shawls.
  2. Plan and book your honeymoon! This is a good time to book an international excursion you may be planning. If you’re doing something local, that should be booked about 4 months before your big day.
  3. Order your bridesmaid dress samples and color swatches with our At Home Try-On service. Get a feel for what styles and colors you like and have your girls try on sample dresses in the comfort of your own home!

6 Months Before

  1. Edit, proof, and have your invitations printed. Don’t forget to order envelopes and enough postage for the type of invitations you’re purchasing. Order your Save the Date cards at this time as well.
  2. Do your hair and makeup trial run with your hair and makeup artist to ensure they are able to create the look you want. Bring along pictures for inspiration and if it doesn’t quite turn out how you like it, let them know!
  3. Make sure each of your girls has ordered her bridesmaid dress. Ordering this far in advance will ensure they do not have to pay any extra fees for rush shipping and will also allow enough time for any necessary alterations they may need. Keep in mind, if you are in between sizes – it is best to order one size up because dresses can be easily altered and taken in if they are too big, whereas they cannot be let out much, if at all.

5 Months Before

  1. Make arrangements for any rentals you may need for your ceremony or reception – tables, chairs, linens, etc.
  2. Check in with your band or DJ to arrange any additional sound equipment you’ll need.
  3. Cake tasting – YUM! Time to figure out what kind of cake you want to serve at your reception.

4 Months Before

  1. Choose grooms and groomsman attire. Bring along any fabric swatches you have gathered in order to pair the right colors.
  2. Send out Save the Date cards.

3 Months Before

  1. Book your accommodations for your wedding night.

2 Months Before

  1. Send out your invitations.
  2. Finalize your food and drink menus with your caterer. If drinks aren’t included in catering, ask about bringing in your own alcohol and/or bartender.

6 WEEKS Before

  1. Purchase your wedding bands – it’s getting REAL now!
  2. Confirm number of bouquets, boutonnieres and centerpieces with your florist.
  3. Start a rough seating chart – you’ll want to wait until all RSVP’s have arrived before finalizing.

4 Weeks Before

  1. Finish up any DIY projects. You definitely don’t want to wait any longer on these – you won’t want (or need!) any extra projects or stress added in the next few weeks! You’ll also want to check to ensure all décor for the ceremony and reception is ready to go at this point.

2 Weeks Before – SO CLOSE!

  1. Get your marriage license lined up.
  2. Create your day-of schedule for bridesmaids, groomsmen, photographer, and any other vendors that need to know when and where to be at a certain time. Pass out or email a copy to each person.
  3. Give your final guest head count to your caterer.
  4. Finalize your seating chart.
  5. Confirm all arrival times with vendors


  1. Give a trusted friend or family member all checks for vendors to ensure they are paid on time.

Easy as pie, right?! We know, every wedding is different and not all are planned 12 months in advance, so your checklist may need a little tweaking. A lot goes into planning your big day, so we hope this wedding planning checklist is as helpful as can be in order to make your wedding day the absolute best day ever!

Is there anything else you would recommend to other brides when planning your big day? Was our wedding planning binder and checklist helpful in your planning? Let us know in the comments below!

Looking for more wedding planning advice? You might enjoy these blogs:
The Ultimate List of Bridesmaid Proposal Ideas How to Mix and Match Bridesmaid Dresses 11 Tips on How To Choose Bridesmaid Dresses 
Wedding Planning Advice from Real Brides Wedding Colors for Spring 2015

Danielle Salazar
Danielle Salazar


13 Responses


January 04, 2018

Can you do a 2018 calendar please?! I love this layout!!!


June 09, 2017

This was so helpful! I’m getting married next October and just starting the planning. Thanks!!


April 07, 2017

Hey! The link for the Marry This! checklist isn’t working! A GoDaddy page comes up…any chance you still have the download you used that you could pass on!?!

Kennedy Blue
Kennedy Blue

April 01, 2016

Nicole and Karissa,

Hey ladies! We actually are just featuring a calendar made by The Elli Blog, so unfortunately, we have no say on when she’ll be making a new one. I’m sure if you do a google or Pinterest search, you can find a cute one for 2017. That’s how we found this one!


April 01, 2016


I agree with Nicole! Will there be a 2017 calendar soon? :)


Nicole S
Nicole S

March 24, 2016

Could you create a 2017 calendar as well? Thanks!

Kennedy Blue
Kennedy Blue

March 04, 2016

Hey Ashley,

The 2016 calendar link should work now, we’ve just updated it! Here is the link if you’re having trouble finding it :) http://www.elli.com/blog/2016-free-printable-calendar/

Happy planning!


February 26, 2016

When will the 2016 be uploaded? When I click on the link it takes me to 2015,

Kennedy Blue
Kennedy Blue

September 02, 2015

Hey ladies! We’re so glad that you’re finding this blog helpful!

We actually got our calendars from The Elli Blog, who seems to release an updated version every winter! For now, you can try just looking up “2016 Free Calendar” on Pinterest, but we’ll be sure to update this blog when the The Elli Blog’s new calendar is released!


August 30, 2015

I too would love a 2016 calender as I have enjoyed the 2015 one, thanks so much!


August 18, 2015

Do you have a 2016 calendar up yet? We’re planning our September 2016 wedding and would LOVE if you had one similar to the 2015 one!

Kennedy Blue
Kennedy Blue

July 30, 2014


Thanks so much for your comment! We actually just got the calendar off of Pinterest so I’m sure if you scour around there for a ‘2015 free printable calendar’ you can find something! However, here’s a cute one that we found:


Katie Schnettgoecke
Katie Schnettgoecke

July 28, 2014

Is there any way you could create the 2015 calendar? My sister-in-law is getting married June 2015, and I would LOVE to use your calendar in the planning binder I am making her!

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Measurement Guide - How to Measure for Your Size

Taking Your Measurements

For the most accurate measurements, do not measure over your clothing. Your measurements should be taken while wearing undergarments similar to the ones you will wear with your dress. The measuring tape shouldn’t be pulled too tight or have too much slack, and should always be parallel with the floor.

Wedding apparel is typically sized differently than retail clothing, so keep in mind that it’s not uncommon to find yourself requiring alterations.

Compare these three measurements to the Kennedy Blue size chart above. It is very important that you order the largest size that corresponds to your measurements. For example, if your bust measures 40.5” (size 12), your waist measures 31” (size 10) and your hips measure 41.5” (size 8), we advise that you order a size 12, and get your dress altered down to custom fit your body.

Bust Size

Wrap the tape around your back and under your arms at the fullest part of your bust (not underneath the bust).

Waist Size

While standing up straight, bend at the waist to one side. Take the measurement where the natural crease happens in your side. This should be a few inches above your belly button. Stand up straight and do not “suck in” when taking this measurment.

Hip size

Standing with your feet together, wrap the tape around the fullest part of your hips and butt to get this measurement.

Depending on the fabric, a dress can be altered down up to 2 full sizes, but can be very difficult to let out as there is only about .5 inch of fabric to do so at the seams.

Ordering anything smaller than a size 12 would not fit in the bust area. Please note: Our bridal gown size chart is different than the bridesmaids sizing and is listed below.