Your Guide to Perfectly Matching Your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen

by Abbi Morgan September 22, 2017 43 Comments

So you’ve found your dream wedding dress, picked your beautiful bridesmaids dresses, and now it’s time for the next part: choosing your groom and groomsmen’s outfits. Even though the tough parts are out of the way (feels good doesn’t it?) the groomsmen tuxes or suits aren't something you should wait on. Whether you're working together as a couple to select groom and groomsmen attire, or designating the job to one person, it's important to have a vision in mind! As with everything else in your wedding: start early. It can take longer than you expect to find your desired style, have your groomsmen measured, and get their orders in. And as is common in wedding planning, something always seems to go wrong. But you have plenty on your plate without stressing out about what suit matches which dress so we’ve taken that worry away from you! Here is a guide we compiled with how to choose the right styles and colors to match your ‘maids along with some other helpful tips!

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How to Coordinate Your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen Like a Pro

First things first: the key to having a smooth groomsmen attire process is understanding that matching everything 100% is unrealistic. We totally get it, this is the big day you’ve been dreaming about for years and you want everything to be perfect. And that is very understandable! But sometimes the blush pink of your bridesmaid dresses isn’t the exact same shade as your groomsmen's bow ties. And that’s fine! No one will notice because they’ll be too focused on the love and happiness of the rest of the wedding. Plus, often the same exact color looks different in different fabrics. Think about it! The sheen of satin looks totally different from the matte finish of chiffon. Instead of stressing yourself out with making every detail match exactly, go in with the mindset of having everything coordinate not match. This will save you a lot of stress and make you a much happier bride-to-be!

Let’s be honest here: weddings are expensive and this is no exception when it comes to your groomsmen. Suits can be suuuuper expensive for something your men may not wear again. A solution? If you are going for a more casual look you can start with having your groomsmen look through their closets before you start shopping. Odds are they have at least one suit that’s in nice condition! Don’t get your hopes up too high for this however because it will be tough to expect every man to have the right color suit (that still fits) in their closet that complements your wedding theme. But it’s a start!

Once you realize that your men probably haven’t bought a new suit since their first job interview ten years ago, the next super smart solution is renting. Did you know that some of Michael Kor’s suits can be up to $800?! Good thing this isn’t your only option because you can rent the same exact suit from Jim’s Formal Wear for $150. Especially if you don’t see your men wearing their tuxedos again after the big day, they will all really appreciate renting.

Coordinating Colors for Bridesmaids and Groomsmen

There’s actually a lot that goes into picking your groomsmen’s outfits. The good news? Most places/sites make it fully customizable so you can create the perfect look for your men and your wedding! Our first piece of advice: start with your color. When you go in for your consultation we suggest bringing pictures of your bridesmaid dresses or a color swatch fabric so you can show the consultant. If you are shopping online this part is even easier because everything is right there for you! Certain bridesmaid dress colors coordinate better with certain suit colors than others. So start with your bridesmaid color, ask the advisor what they think, and go from there.

I talked with the menswear department manager at the Wedding Shoppe Inc. to learn the best tips and tricks to choose your perfect suit! Here are our top tips:

Choosing a wool suit/tux will definitely pay off. While polyester is cheaper, wool is softer, more comfortable, and much easier to wear. And while you may be thinking that wool is hot and itchy, this isn’t true! Wool is very breathable so you will be cool in the summer but still warm in the winter.

White or ivory suits are awesome. Jim’s Formal Wear often sees couples with a traditional wedding choose all white or ivory suits! White/ivory from head to toe matches the bride so this is a very classic and traditional look.

These groomsmen rocked the traditional all-white suit | Your Guide to Coordinating Groomsmen and Bridesmaids | Scott & Hannah Photography | Kennedy Blue

This groom and his groomsmen chose white suit coats with black bow ties to complement the bridesmaids who wore black dresses. They look stunning! | Scott & Hannah Photography


Light grey suits and tuxedos are very popular in the spring and early summer months. Light grey coordinates well with summer colors such as blush or violet and reflects the warmth of the season.

Light grey suits are perfect for the spring or summer wedding | Your Guide to Coordinating Groomsmen and Bridesmaids | Jim's Formal Wear Suit | Kennedy Blue bridesmaid dress Mackenzie

This Grey Aspen Tuxedo from Jim's Formal Wear is perfect with Kennedy Blue's bridesmaid dress Mackenzie featured in violet. Kennedy Blue ties (from left to right) are KB3894KB1120, and KB2114.


Black suits or tuxedos are perfect for the traditional and classic couple. There is nothing more timeless than a black suit.

There is nothing more classic than a black suit for your wedding | Your Guide to Coordinating Groomsmen and Bridesmaids | Jim's Formal Wear Suit | Kennedy Blue bridesmaid dress Jade in navy blue

This Michael Kors Ultra Slim Sterling Wedding Suit is so flattering and a very classic choice. Pair it with Kennedy Blue's bridesmaid dress Jade in navy blue for a stunning combo! Kennedy Blue ties (from left to right) are KB2163, KB0923, and KB0706.


Navy blue suits are very popular right now, and we absolutely love them. Navy blue suits are great for the modern couple. They stand out more than the traditional black tux and look really great on the groomsmen! Navy blue is awesome because it’s a warm color, it works with a variety of complexions, and it complements a ton of different bridesmaid colors.

Navy blue suits and bordeaux bridesmaid dresses are the hottest style | Coordinate Your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen | Jim's Formal Wear Suit | Kennedy Blue

Michael Kors Ultra Slim Sterling Wedding Suit from Jim's Formal Wear and Kennedy Blue's bridesmaid dress Madeline in bordeaux make a perfect fall look. 

Navy blue suits and bordeaux dresses are the ultimate combination | Your Guide to Coordinating Groomsmen and Bridesmaids | Jim's Formal Wear Suit | Kennedy Blue bridesmaid dress Stella in bordeaux

Michael Kors Ultra Slim Sterling Wedding Suit from Jim's Formal Wear and Kennedy Blue's bridesmaid dress Stella in bordeaux is a very modern combination. Kennedy Blue ties (from left to right) are KB3793, KB0923, and KB1525

Bridesmaid Dress Styles to Match Suits or Tuxedos

Now that you chose your suit color you can narrow down your selection and pick the best style. Choosing your suit style will really depend on your desired wedding “vibe.” Having a traditional wedding versus a destination beach wedding will mean totally different suits (and suit colors.) So here are our tips!

Totally lost on what look you want? That’s okay! What a lot of couples decide to do is have the groom and groomsmen all in the same suit/tux, with white or ivory shirts underneath, and either all have the same ties with slightly different pocket squares or have different ties with the same pocket squares. The groom usually matches his tie to his bride and the groomsmen typically complement their ties with their respective bridesmaids. Some parties decide to have the men in colored shirts or have fun, patterned ties. The unwritten rule is the more pattern, the more relaxed the wedding.

Want a more modern look? Slim fitting suits are the way to go. Unlike what you may expect, slim fitting suits actually look great on a variety of shapes and sizes. It can be hard to accommodate for everyone in your wedding party, which is why choosing a style that will flatter everyone is important. Slim fit suits look crisp and tailored, and will make for a very nice clean and cohesive look.

The new trend? Casual. The Wedding Shoppe men's formal wear manager told us that they are definitely seeing a trend towards more casual weddings. More men are foregoing the three piece suit in favor of bow ties and suspenders, which can be really fun. This look isn’t for everyone of course, but if your wedding theme calls for more of a casual groomsmen look then feel free to have fun with it! Mix and match bow ties, wear colorful suspenders, and have fun with crazy socks. The Wedding Shoppe manager suggested that the casual look works great for ushers as well.

While having a more casual approach is awesome, you might want to also keep in mind that your wedding will also be one of the few times in your life that you can wear a handsome three piece suit! It is important to weigh all your options.

These groomsmen totally nailed the casual look | Your Guide to Coordinating Groomsmen and Bridesmaids | Tandem Tree Photography | Kennedy Blue

With tan pants and suspenders, these groomsmen totally nailed the mismatched casual look | Tandem Tree Photography


Having a destination wedding or beach wedding? We suggest choosing a tan suit! This look is less traditional and complements the whole sand/beach theme really well.  

Tan suits and navy bridesmaid dresses are perfect for a destination beach wedding | Coordinating Your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen | Jim's Formal Wear | Kennedy Blue

The Tan Havana suit from Jim's Formal Wear and Kennedy Blue Lola bridesmaid dress in navy blue is a great beach wedding combination. 


Having a mismatched bridal party? You can try to mismatch all the groomsmen to match their respective ‘maids and this can be super cute but also super complicated. What we suggest is putting the groomsmen in a neutral color shirt and suit and mismatching their ties or pocket squares. So if all your bridesmaids are in different shades of blue, put your groomsmen in a dark grey suit, white shirts, and a neutral blue shade vest that falls in the middle of your selected color spectrum. Then you can let them pick different blue pocket squares or ties! (Again, all of this is entirely up to you, your fiancée, and your wedding theme).

Coordinating Ties and Pocket Squares

More and more wedding parties are choosing to go away from patterned and striped ties and are instead choosing striped-texture ties. Striped-textured ties are simple and classic. They aren’t boring and you won’t regret them in 30 years!

The nice thing about pocket squares is that you usually don’t have to worry about them. At Jim’s Formal Wear, as with many other formal departments, they offer pre-selected and recommended pocket squares that will match the color you choose. You can make the final decision, but pocket squares are something you don’t have to stress about!

    Other Tips

    You may be feeling bored with thinking about all your groomsmen in the same exact outfit. No need to worry about that! Socks are the newest fun accessory to incorporate some personality into your wedding party. They are fun for the groomsmen and also super fun for photo opportunities. Even if you choose a more traditional wedding theme, you can still have fun with socks because you won’t see them unless you want to!

    Fun socks for your groomsmen are the newest accessory and fun photo opportunity! | Your Guide to Coordinating Groomsmen and Bridesmaids | LuMett Stocking CO | Kennedy Blue

      Have your groomsmen wear mismatched socks to add some personality! | LuMett Socking CO

      Having a non-traditional wedding? Check out Jim’s Formal Wear! They cater to every couple and wedding. From western to rustic to camo to Renaissance weddings, Jim’s Formal Wear has seen it all.

      Slate blue can be a tough color to match. But please, please don’t let that change your mind because slate blue is one of my absolute favorite bridesmaid colors! What the Wedding Shoppe recommends is choosing a patterned tie because there is a larger range of color possibilities. Luckily, Kennedy Blue carries multiple slate blue ties specifically to match one of our favorite bridesmaid colors. So forge ahead with slate blue!

      Slate blue can be a tough color to match, but it doesn't have to be with our slate blue ties! | Your Guide to Coordinating Groomsmen and Bridesmaids | Jim's Formal Wear suit | Kennedy Blue bridesmaid dress Anna in slate blue

      Michael Kors Sterling Grey Wedding Suit at Jim's Formal Wear is a very handsome choice to complement Kennedy Blue's bridesmaid dress Anna in slate blue. Kennedy Blue ties (from left to right) are KB0805, KB2850, and KB0726.

      Renting Fast Facts

      * As I said before, renting your suit/tux can save you a ton of money. If you buy your suit you can wear it again and again which is a huge benefit, but unless you can honestly picture yourself wearing the suit to work or to other events then you may just be paying for it to gather dust in your closet. You also have to pay for your own alterations, and if you gain or lose weight you may not even fit into your suit!

      * Renting online can be intimidating, but it doesn't have to be! And there are a ton of benefits to renting online. All your alterations are included, Jim's Formal Wear will ship each suit to your groomsmen individually, and you can wear designer suits at an affordable price.

      * You can even request a free fabric swatch from Jim's Formal Wear to test the quality of the material and see the color in person! JFW can also send you a complimentary tape measure.

      * We recommend getting professionally measured before you order to ensure the best fit, but that's honestly the hardest part of the process! Just create an event, build your custom suit or tux, and see what you think! It's such a great option for busy guys or groomsmen who don't live in the area. 

        Let's Chat

        With all the stress of wedding planning, you don't want to have to also worry about picking the best tux. There's a lot to consider such as color, fit, and style but once you start to narrow down your options it makes the whole process a lot easier. And in the end, your groomsmen are happy to be apart of your special day and will look handsome in whatever you put them in!

        Are you a bride or groom who recently chose your groom and groomsmen suits or tuxedos? Are you currently trying to decide? What colors and styles do you like? Do you see any Jim's Formal Wear and Kennedy Blue combinations that you love as much as we do?? Let us know in the comments below! 



          Abbi Morgan
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          43 Responses

          Rachel Carroll
          Rachel Carroll

          June 28, 2018

          Wonderful post! Soo helpful

          Maria
          Maria

          April 06, 2018

          Really helpful article! Several of these ideas hadn’t even crossed my mind—I’ve been considering the sock thing, but the patterned ties are an excellent idea! Perfect too since bridesmaids are wearing slate blue! Thanks for the helpful tips and links!

          David
          David

          February 08, 2018

          Awesome information to help a fella pick out matching complimentary colors to match the color scheme of the wedding will be a big help….

          Kayla Van Driel
          Kayla Van Driel

          February 07, 2018

          Great tips! Can’t wait to utilize what I’ve learned towards my wedding!

          Kayla Van Driel
          Kayla Van Driel

          February 07, 2018

          Great tips! Can’t wait to utilize what I’ve learned towards my wedding!

          mercy
          mercy

          January 22, 2018

          can the maid of honor wear royal blue dress and the bestman and groom also put on d same color(royal blue) with the bridesmaids dressed in fuscia pink?

          Jaime Contreras
          Jaime Contreras

          January 08, 2018

          Great tips! My fiancee would love this article.

          Megan Moran
          Megan Moran

          January 04, 2018

          I love the information here. I am having a mainly black and white color scheme with a few little colors to make everything pop. I was worried a bit about the slight differences, but this article helped. I am so excited!

          Sarah Van Gorden
          Sarah Van Gorden

          December 05, 2017

          Awesome!

          Christine
          Christine

          December 04, 2017

          I love the idea of matching violet dresses with light grey suits! My bridesmaids ordered dresses in violet so the next step will be getting the guys to match :)

          Jordan Burns
          Jordan Burns

          December 03, 2017

          This was a great help to me and my fiance!

          Madeline
          Madeline

          December 01, 2017

          Awesome! A very Helpful Article!

          Heather Corder
          Heather Corder

          November 01, 2017

          Very helpful article!

          Alexea
          Alexea

          October 23, 2017

          Love these ties. I was thinking of doing the bridesmaid’s dresses all different complimenting colors, these ties go with it!! So perfect.

          Morgan
          Morgan

          October 20, 2017

          Great ideas! very helpful!

          Hayley Lieberher
          Hayley Lieberher

          October 19, 2017

          This information will be so helpful! Picking the bridesmaids dresses can be stressful enough. Now we have a great resource to also make sure the groomsmen are coordinating well with the bridesmaids!! :)

          Dena
          Dena

          October 18, 2017

          great ideas!!

          Kayla
          Kayla

          October 18, 2017

          Great tips!

          Sterling Burke
          Sterling Burke

          October 16, 2017

          Thanks for the tips!

          Katie
          Katie

          October 14, 2017

          I adore the slate blue bridesmaids look… I think we’re going to be mismatched on both sides… I have three guys in my party and my fiancé has one lady in his… I have a man of honor… and many different body types. I love the navy suit for the groom… so much to think about and this article inspired a lot of new ideas!

          Alicia Bowman
          Alicia Bowman

          October 11, 2017

          Love this! I am in love with slate blue and was having a hard time finding a nice suit or tie colour to match!

          Keely
          Keely

          October 10, 2017

          Very helpful info!

          Caitlin Doonan
          Caitlin Doonan

          October 09, 2017

          Great info!!

          Chelsea
          Chelsea

          October 08, 2017

          This was such a great article! So many good ideas!!

          Kari eckert
          Kari eckert

          October 07, 2017

          Great ideas!

          Lauren
          Lauren

          October 07, 2017

          Yes! This post is exactly what I needed!

          Alex B
          Alex B

          October 06, 2017

          Such great advice! I’m so glad I found this blog!

          Jane Eller
          Jane Eller

          October 05, 2017

          This is an absolute must read for all new brides if they are like me and need to be matchy matchy.

          Jess Ankney
          Jess Ankney

          October 05, 2017

          Great ideas!

          Tomi Wilson
          Tomi Wilson

          October 03, 2017

          Great blog! Very helpful!

          Ashley A
          Ashley A

          October 02, 2017

          I love these tips! It’s very informative and helpful for wedding planning!

          Angela
          Angela

          October 02, 2017

          Great article!

          Tiffany
          Tiffany

          September 28, 2017

          Hey y’all!

          I’m currently entered to win a free dress from Kennedy Blue?! I’m beyond excited and can hardly contain myself! This opportunity means mountains! Aside from that all the articles from this blog are so insightful! Keep em coming ?
          ❤️ Tiffany! Getting married September 2018! In Vegas baby ?

          Roxann
          Roxann

          September 28, 2017

          I love your website camt wait to ware one of your dresses on my wonderful day 04/20/2018

          Kaelyn Whittington
          Kaelyn Whittington

          September 28, 2017

          Awesome! Very helpful way to the everything together

          Amy Byrd
          Amy Byrd

          September 28, 2017

          This really helps!!

          Morgan
          Morgan

          September 28, 2017

          Great article and blog! So many helpful tips for the big day!

          You all rock!

          Amanda Grieger
          Amanda Grieger

          September 28, 2017

          This was such a good read! Next call my bridesmaids will be wearing navy wrap dresses and the groomsmen will be in grey suits!

          Madison
          Madison

          September 27, 2017

          Thanks for posting all these tips! I found this so helpful!

          Hunter Klamm
          Hunter Klamm

          September 27, 2017

          This actually helped me pick out my suits, and made sure my fiancé wasn’t going to look weird on our wedding day lol

          Cortney
          Cortney

          September 26, 2017

          Find this to be one of the hardest but I think I finally got it

          Gail Zietlow
          Gail Zietlow

          September 26, 2017

          This website is awesome!

          Kristin
          Kristin

          September 22, 2017

          Such helpful info. Wefdig planning is so stressful!!!

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